Back to basics
Author: Estíbaliz Hidalgo
Castro
Date: February 12, 2012
Last year I reached my boiling point. The life I had back home was
beautiful but unfulfilling. You see, I´m from San José and as much I love the
city where I was born and raised, it is impossible to hide the fact that as
small as it may seem, San José has all the social madness and paranoid feelings
of any big city… I needed a change.
Eventually the chance came; the opportunity of a lifetime was knocking
at my door and I was ready to invite it in. I was offered a job, a “steady – 8
hours long – deal with work partners” kind of job, but it has a condition: I had
to move and live by the beach (WHERE DO I SIGN?!).
And so I packed my things, said goodbye to my family and friends and
took a 50 minute plane ride (because it is a ten hours long drive) and came to
live at Matapalo, Puntarenas. A place where I have never visited before, where
I knew no one and that is many, many kilometers away from what I know as my home (and
I didn´t brought my red shiny shoes).
The first week I was exited, everything was so new! The sounds of the
monkeys climbing up and down the trees, the different animals I saw walking to
the hotel, the beach –OMG the beach! – it was perfect, I changed the cars and
the “bad city elements” for exotic animals and sandy afternoons.
Then, loneliness came; the nights were long, especially when I had to eat
alone, I missed my family, my friends and my hugs before sleeping time…
Inevitably, I suffered a meltdown, something really small and insignificant
that happened hit me like a thousands punches, and as the tears and the screaming
came, I couldn´t calm myself, I just needed to cry my feelings out and the
worst part, the thing that made my cried even harder, was that I thought I had
no one to rely on.
But I was so blind. I didn’t allow myself to see that in between the
sand and the waves, there were people surrounding me, human beings made of bone
and flesh, that from day one always offered me their smile and support.
Most of the people in here didntt finish school, they didn’t had the
same access to education and health that I had growing up in San José, in a
household where money wasn´t a real problem. From afar, it may seem like we don’t
have much in common…
In San José, people often are aggressive and have too many emotional
issues, but in here everything is simpler, the persons are real, they are
humble and honest. They respect you for what you are and not for what you have;
so they test you, they want to see the real you.
And I´m also like that, back home I felt asphyxiated because all the fakeness
that surrounds me, but here everything turns back to basics: “show me who you
are, and I´ll show you my respect”. It’s
simple, its easier and it’s beautiful.
So I recommend to you, if you decide to come to Lapa Ríos, to enjoy the
wildlife and the adventures, but also talk to the staff, learn about them,
listen to their amazing stories of how they overcome obstacles and achieve more
of what they could ever dream of. Especially,
take a mental photograph of their smile and always try to remember that even in
the hardest time a smile can change your life and the life of the person that
is next to you.
They know that, they do that…why don't we?